Sian Simpson

Re comment posted 24th July \'Think\'.

Sir-Madame, your comments valid & I agree...2 a degree. People are also asking what if the roles were reversed! Bennetts family would have suffered then a repetative select wording on 'her' site. Let's hope 2 God that Bennett has truly learned & has now re-thought her life & aimed higher than the Gang life she was involved with in the 1st instance. (more importantly steered away from the 'boys' who do not know the real meaning of DAD or HUSBAND). who simply take a back seat & relish in what THEY have instigated in the 1st instance.
As stated on a previous page, allow that young Lady sian 2 rest in peace & stop this bickering. Physchologically-wise, there are hundreds of youngesters who require guideance...can you help? can I? reading (most) of these posted comments leaves a nasty taste in my mouth, because it (snide comments) will not end for now. I end by saying a Prayer for every-one good & bad because I sincerely have faith in change, perhaps not now, but one day soon. Everybody deserves a chance..else what is left? The prisons are full, the MP'S are 2 busy & it is apparent Society is tethering on giving up.

Wendy (as fore-mentioned...) July 25, 2008

THINK!

THINKING OF SIANS FAMILY.

SO DISGUSTED EVERYDAY THAT YOUNG ADULTS JUST CANT SEEM TO GROW UP.
EVEN THOUGH A YOUNG BEAUTIFUL LADY DIED FOR ABSOLUTE RUBBISH.

EVERY TIME ONE OF THESE YOUNG IMMATURE FEMALES COMES ONLINE SPITTING OUT A TISSUE OF SENTIMENTAL NONSENSE, TO JUSTIFY THE REASONS WHY THE KILLER INVOLVED HERSELF IN SUCH A PETTY ARGUMENT IN THE FIRST PLACE.
IT JUST SOUNDS MORE AND MORE PATHETIC.

THAT IMAGE OF SIANS AUNTY CHEYRLL CRYING IN THE STREET,WILL I THINK HAUNT ME FOREVER BECAUSE IT SUMMED UP THE DEVESTATING EFFECTS OF KNIFE CRIME.

I WONDER IF THE WOMAN RESPONSIBLE FOR SIANS DEATH SAW THAT PICTURE BECAUSE THAT IS PROOF ENOUGH THAT OTHER INNOCENT VICTIMS WERE CLAIMED THE NIGHT SIAN DIED.

A COMMUNITY HAS BEEN LEFT DEVESTATED.

ALTHOUGH THERE WERE OTHER PEOPLE INVOLVED IN THIS RIDICULOUS ARGUMENT THAT DAY.
AND ALSO SIAN MAY NOT HAVE BEEN 100% INNOCENT.
NOBODY CARES ABOUT THE SHE SAID OR SHE DID ASPECT OF THIS INCIDENT.

ALL THE MAJORITY OF US WILL REMEMBER IS THAT A DOCILE (BUT PROBABLY A POTENTIALLY BRIGHT YOUNG WOMAN,THE KILLER) INVOLVED HERSELF IN SOMEONE ELSES ARGUMENT AND ENDED UP TAKING SOMEONES LIFE.

HOW WILL THIS WOMAN COPE WITH THE FACT THAT SHE KILLED SOMEONE?

HOW WILL THIS WOMAN LIVE WITH FACT THAT SHE IS NOW
VIEWED BY MANY AS NOTHING BUT SCUM?

WILL IT BE HARDER LIVING WITH THE FACT THAT SHE DIDN'T GO TO PRISON?

PERHAPS INSIDE SHE FEELS PRISON WOULD HAVE BEEN FAR EASIER THAN NOW LIVING WITH THE BURDEN OF SUCH A HAUNTING SECRET.

THE PSYCHOLOGICAL EFFECTS OF MS BENNETS ACTIONS MAY ACTUALLY TAKE YEARS TO UNFOLD.

FORMING NEW RELATIONSHIPS,HAVING CHILDREN (TEACHING CHILDREN RIGHT FROM WRONG), LOSING LOVED ONES ALONG THE WAY, DEALING WITH FUTURE CONFRONTATIONS.

IN OTHER WORDS HOW WILL SHE ESCAPE HER OWN MIND!

IN LIFE WE HAVE SO MUCH TO COPE WITH ALREADY.

YOUNG PEOPLE,PLEASE,STOP,THINK
BEFORE YOU INVOLVE YOURSELF IN NONSENSE,
BECAUSE, YOU COULD BE SETTING MANY GOOD FAMILIES UP FOR A LIFETIME OF MISERY NOT TO MENTION YOURSELF.

LOVE AND RESPECT TO SIANS FAMILY.
AND MAY THE MEMORY OF SIAN LIVE ON.XX

Concerned Croydon (UNRELATED) July 24, 2008

Rise above the anger

WATCHA O'JAY........DIS AIN'T NO GIRL......WHY, WHAT BOTHERS U ABOUT WENDY'S COMMENTS-U CAN'T WISE UP?
GOD REST SIAN & PRAY FOR HER SPIRIT. LOOK AROUND PEOPLE, EACH DAY KNIFE A WIN, PAPERS SELL, FLORISTS TRADE & YOUNG/OLD ALIKE WEEP TEARS FOR THEIR LOST SONS...WON'T HALT NOW NOT IN THIS TIME SPAN...ARE 'THEY' TRYING TO WIPE US OUT,EH? WHO SELL THE BLADE IN THE FIRST INSTANCE, ARE THE POLITICIANS REALLY MAKING AN EFFORT? THINK ABOUT IT...OR IS IT MERELY KILLING OFF A RACE. N NY THE DRUGS WERE LET LOOSE, WHO GOT WIPED OUT AND JAILED? THOUGHTS GALORE WELCOME..MP'S NEED ONLY REPLY. REMBER (IF URE OLE ENUFF) WE WERE NT WELCOME, NOW LOOK WHAT WE'VE GOT? AND NO CONTROL WHATSOEVA. O'JAY, N'TING DIRECTED 2 YOU PERSONALLY.

Wendy (friend & relation) July 21, 2008

Against knife and gun crime

I wish I had time to read all of the comments posted on here. I am disappointed to see that something that was supposed to be in loving memory of Sian is being used as grounds for a slanging match.

What is done is done. No amount of cussing this person or that person is ever going to change it. This is half of the problem with youth of today you do not realise that your actions are final and once they are commited they can never be taken back.

I am sad to say that Sian is not the only young person I know who has been murdered in such a way. In the last 3 months I know 2 families who have lost a somebody in the same way. What will it take for you children to TALK through your differences?

Half a generation of people will be wiped out and you will only have yourself to blame. What kind of world are we living in when people think it is ok to kill other people? What happened to the good old days of fist fights? Anybody who intoduces a weapon into a fight is a coward, scared that they can not win that battle on their own merit or evil because they intend to do some serious damage. Either way they are scum and as Cheryll herself always says 'everybody's 12 o clock will come'. It is not for anybody on this earth to judge because we will all face God on Judgement day.

Sian was a beautiful, intelligent young lady who's life ended far too soon. May her soul rest in perfect peace.

Natalie (Friend) July 18, 2008

what

who is this wendy girl talking about

O Jay (Friend) July 17, 2008

Watch \'Banged-up\'....& can u learn?

They never curse the dark
and they never praise the light
They r always n the thick of things
and they always stir the s**te.
And in their eyes if u look deep
sometimetimes by God, they make me weep.
They always fall, between two stools,
But really, they are only fools!
And in their voice, if you speak deep,
Behind the sound, a conscience weak.
God 4give me... but 'he' banged my sister..so listen good. He's worthless & a record long as my arm,/weed/seed/crack/mugging etc..the list 2 long. GET OUTTA THERE QUICK SPEED.

Wendy (known & now with Mr Big......) July 16, 2008

Society at it\'s Best

get the radid off dis here site young 'hunny' gals and hve respect. Jus reach frm Jam-down (JA) & U gals soooo wannna-B. Dis is sum sorta God site, yet still look like a war zone. Go de ras out dere & cloth each other. This poor gal needs to rest not having you idiots vocally disssin-who can defend, hello. Good Lord what a life. Pls don't mke me and i seek and find, caus all una u need a clip 'round the ear and don't go chatting abt ole people caus if u hear u will listen, else FEEL. Give it a break now...STOP, I BEG OF YOU. Tell u what, go on ur knees and pray you do not end up 6 foot under, give thanks,yes? That dere sumting u call man, ras, me would have his neck already. Wha happen? him a KING?
wATCH ME NOW, c**k don't make fathers-womb make muddas, so b a mudda and not an idiot lusting afta a DOG who blatantly DO NOT WANT U.
Sorry Sian-rest ur lovely evil ridden soul, you are free x x x x

Wendy (X-MOTHER N LAW) July 16, 2008

charmain

You entirely miss the point. Who cares if you live in a council house?

If Chantelle is making threats, get them logged and let the police deal with it, its that simple. If you are not in the police, I suggest you stay out of it. I have no real problem with you, and I can see that you are obviously upset about this whole incident. I am NOT defending Chantelle at all - after all this is her mess - one can obviously see what kind of person she is. I just think that if you lot had left this to the proper authorities - if this girl was making disgusting threats like that then you all should have kept away. Having said that - it's easy to say that now but too late.

My point is, that this isnt the place for this debate. This is for friends and family of a dead girl - and it could quite easily have been any one of the girls who was there that fateful day to die. Dont get caught up in Chantelles hatred and mess - like I said before, enough people have suffered....one dead girl, one who will have to live with what she has done, two little children and a family ripped to shreds....not to mention friends of all concerned. I can see you are in pain - but the way you are defending your friend is not going to help her or yourself in the long run.

Despite what I have said about your attitude - and please get this straight, its because I dont think you should do this here - you're entitled to your views - I just think that if you could go about this in a more productive manner. You sound like a good and loyal friend, so take this on board before more people get hurt.

Chelsea got herself into something that she never should have, and she is going to have to live with that forever - a far worse punishment than prison. And this is what I mean. For every action in life there is a reaction. Its up to you to judge what that reaction might be before you take the plunge.

Samantha (passer by) July 15, 2008

samantha

samantha you are getting your self involved right!! just like chelsea and sian you are gettin urself involved because u fink i am wrong??? so u no eaxclty what chelsea an sian felt and y they did it i am not hating on chantelle cause of no baby father thank u i do not have one???? i am gettin involved cause i believe chantelle is still carrying on her nasty deeds and threats toward chelsea and her sons sister which is discusting and has not learned a thing after getting her frend killed. i am mearly defending myself agenst theses women who reckon im alone in a council flat wiv a kid???? so i fink they should be put straight. just like u fink i shud be! i never sed nathan wasnt the cause i sed he wasnt the cause for me and u cnt just blame it on a man the women were willing and dumb enuf to let him get them this far am i wrong??? that is y i hate chantelle she had no reason to start threating a baby and in her jelouse rages caused chelsea sian and the children to suffer

Chantelle (none) July 15, 2008

GROW UP,PLEASE!

charmain/cassie

please stop using this site for a of catalogue off illiterate pointless aggressive remarks.

the guilty and the responsible are old enough to fight their own battles.

let sian rest let those who do care pay their respects.
i cant believe the IMMATURITY!

are you people still at school?
you come across worse than vicky pollard!

YEAH BUT !NO BUT!

GROW UP PLEEEEEEEEAAAAAAAAAASSSSSSSEEEEEEE!

Concerned Croydon (UNRELATED PERSON WHOWOULD LIKE PEOPLE TO GROW UP!) July 15, 2008